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Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-00325Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict. This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive.Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation.0:00 - Intro0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness 3:03 - #2: Straw-Manning5:34 - Refuse Burdens6:17 - Use The "That's Exactly Why" Response6:40 - Can you pass this test?8:14 - #4: Projecting Bad Faith9:33 - How To Avoid This In Your Own Life10:42 - Notice When You Lose Your Capacity To Listen12:16 - Want To Build That Unshakable Confidence?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook:…

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2nUgFXJGame of Thrones - Why Tyrion Can't Be KilledTyrion Lannister has a knack for staying alive. He is constantly getting into trouble and talking his way out. But Tyrion's genius is replicable if you learn how he thinks. And one of the first thing he thinks of is what other people want. That is how he manages to continue through season after season in Game of Thrones.We cover 3 ways to figure out what people want by examining how Tyrion Lannister survives through Game of Thrones:1. Cold reading - watch how Tyrion cold reads Bronn . Contrast that with Lommy, who never even attempts to cold read Polliver before he kills him2. Listening - Tyrion listens very carefully to what people say. When the pirates take him hostage and mention they will sell his "manhood" to the cock merchant, he comes up with a clever reason for them to keep him alive. Cersei provides a foil to this in how she behaves with Joffrey.3. Asking people for their…

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-004-25This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence.0:00 - Intro0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love7:16 - The Burden Test 8:18 - How to offer support8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing12:07 - Want more?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandEdited by:Ryan D'SouzaAndre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-005-25Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free.0:00 - Intro0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending1:00 - The context3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame6:20 - It can get worse...7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo Editing:SkyeAndre RingkjoebHenry Houpert Learn more about…

100,000 Subscriber Thank You + GiveawayDidn't think I'd get to do this soon! We just hit 100,000 subscribers earlier this week and I wanted to thank everyone who has watched, subscribed, and shared our channel. Aside from just extending our thanks, we're offering 10 of our subscribers a chance to win a brand new module on Dealing With Conflict. It will cover how to come out of those difficult situations getting what you want while still maintaining a strong relationship.So if you're interested in participating, here's how:1) Share your favorite video of ours on Facebook2) Make sure to tag Charisma on CommandThat's it. We'll add your submission up to 3 times for 3 shares over the next week. The giveaway ends Thursday April 21st. We'll randomly choose the 10 winners then and contact them in the following days.Thanks for making this possible :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook:…

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2BjiwgXAdele: How to Be AuthenticAdele might be the best singer alive. Her music is soulful and moving. What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions. So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan. We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion.Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better.James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B...The three things that Adele does so well that will we…

Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence:https://goo.gl/y2CvdQGame of Thrones: How Power Really WorksGame of Thrones is all about power games. What many people don't realize is that behind those power games are clashes of the way people see the world. There are clashes of frames. The people who can control these frames (like Tyrion Lannister and Tywin Lannister) tend to win over the Game of Thrones people who struggle more often (like Robb Stark).There are tons of ways you can use this understanding of frames in your normal life. We'll look at three in this videoNote: the spoilers go up only through season 4, so if you haven't seen all the way to season 6, you are still good to watch1) Breaking frames for persuasion (Tyrion vs. Shagga)2) Frames in insults (Tyrion vs Robb Stark and Robb Stark vs. Jaime Lannister)3) Frames to create options (Tyrion vs. Tywin and Tyrion vs. Lysa Arryn)Let me know how you feel about these fictional breakdowns! I have never done one in the past and would love your…

Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-007-25Sometimes, the harder we try to make people like us, the more we push them away. Whether it's trying to seem cool, covering up a mistake, or shifting blame, certain phrases can turn a minor slip-up into a lasting loss of respect. In this video, we break down five common behaviors that can make people dislike you—and how to handle these moments better.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro0:43 - Phrase #12:25 - Phrase #23:28 - Phrase #34:38 - Phrase #45:56 - Boundary Poking7:08 - Phrase #57:56 - How to redeem yourself11:05 - The fastest way to improve your confidence and charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: / charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo edited by:Andre RingkjoebIntro edited by:Barcuch & Ikjot Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Diary of a CEO podcast:https://youtu.be/zg4Ta7vXiIMI went on The Diary of a CEO, and it didn’t go how I expected… In this video, I break down what happened and what this experience taught me about charisma, confidence, and being truly authentic.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro0:24 - My charisma mistakes0:45 - How I wound up there2:15 - The question that got me...3:36 - Body language analysis4:50 - The interview drops5:54 - The phases of learning9:21 - Wrapping upSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nWDgDgThe Secret Of Bill Clinton's Incredible Eye ContactBill Clinton may have the most famously captivating eye contact of anyone alive. On all sides of the political spectrum, people have noted that when Bill Clinton spoke to them, it felt as if they were the only person in the room. Even Newt Gingrich, his political nemesis, said he was "one of the most charming, effective people I have negotiated with." It may have won him the presidency in the 1992 town hall debate against George Bush Sr. and Ross Perot.A huge component of that charm and charisma comes from the engaging way Clinton makes eye contact. And that is the main focus of this video. We'll explore how he is able to convey many emotions with his gaze. Especially a sense of power and genuine connection that come from his intense, narrow eyes. You'll also see how he breaks eye contact in a way that makes people feel heard and be able to contrast that with George…

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/COC-009-25Zelensky’s negotiation with Trump went off the rails. In this video, we break down the key mistakes, what he could have done differently, and how you can win high-stakes negotiations.0:00 - Intro0:35 - Caveat1:04 - Who makes the first offer?2:08 - Zelenskyy fumbled this essential point3:55 - Do not beg to get your needs met4:30 - Employ the "friendly f***k no"5:32 - Don't push back in other ways7:16 - The part where things break down8:07 - The Karen Technique8:24 - Zelenskyy gets into it with Vance9:26 - How to recover from these moments10:45 - Unprocessed contempt12:15 - Always have a second option13:27 - Zelenskyy's Fox interview14:09 - Remember that you can walk out14:46 - Learn to master your soft power skillsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn…

Join Charisma University and boost your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/010-25Today we're using the power of AI and hindsight to fix some of the most awkward celebrity interviews, showing exactly how you can avoid these cringe-worthy situations in your own life. Learn to handle passive-aggressive comments and uncomfortable moments with confidence.0:00 - Intro0:31 - Blake Lively1:16 - Blake Lively Fixed With AI2:38 - Turn Passive Aggression Into Active Aggression3:18 - Jonah Hill & Jimmy Kimmel4:21 - Agree, Exaggerate & Let It Go4:27 - Jonah Hill Fixed With AI5:53 - Ellen DeGeneres & Dakota Johnson6:37 - Allow Awkwardness To Exist7:13 - Ellen Fixed With AI7:35 - Jim Carrey9:37 - Jim Carrey Fixed With AI10:41 - Learn how to boost your confidence & charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad…

Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/gQT6DNElliott Hulse's tip for a deeper voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0Original video: https://youtu.be/wiOwqDmacJo?t=2m14s3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate AnyoneNeil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks.In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more.Those tips are, in short1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and styleEnjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos!Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With…

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/011-25Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them.0:00 - Intro2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort 3:27 - Over explaining and rambling 4:42 - Seeking approval 6:46 - Roping in other people9:08 - Resentment12:51 - Compliment sandwichingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/012-25Jack Reacher and Geralt from the Witcher are fearless in combat, unstoppable in crisis… So why do they shut down around women?In this video, we break down how modern masculinity became passive, what it says about young men today, and how tapping into what you really want can bring your life back online.00:00 - Intro00:18 - Jack Reacher01:00 - The Problem03:30 - How The Male Fantasy Genre Evolved06:06 - The Difference 06:44 - James Bond07:20 - Risking Rejection08:08 - The Witcher08:34 - Social Media09:32 - Monk Mode10:00 - What's Going On?10:46 - The Connection To Male Passiveness12:23 - How To Overcome Your FearsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2E8YitbRobin Williams' #1 Tip To Becoming FunnierRobin Williams was absolutely hilarious. His mental quickness was second to none and people often commented on what a raw natural comedic talent he was. The truth is though, Robin Williams honed his skills over many years. And one of those skills in particular can be applied by anyone to make themselves funnier almost immediately. It's a humor technique called playing a character and it can make even things that are unfunny seem hilarious.So check out this tip and use it in your own jokes and stories. I can't promise you'll become as funny as Robin Williams, but if you do it with conviction, you'll see people respond with way more laughter than you may be used to.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my…

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-013-25Most people spend their lives bouncing between pleasing others and chasing freedom—never realizing both paths can feel like a trap. This video breaks down the psychological tug-of-war between ego and superego, inspired by a powerful scene from Shogun. If you've ever felt stuck between doing what you should do and what you want to do, this might reframe everything.00:00 - Intro00:23 - Shogun00:59 - The Scene01:56 - Living Ego 03:03 - The Dilemma 03:35 - Super Ego04:44 - Coping05:57 - Finding The Truth06:58 - The Middle Way08:03 - 3 Powerful Questions08:50 - What Happens Next09:30 - Living Your Path Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghIkjotChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/014-25 Most people spend their lives wearing a mask—trying to be “good,” while hiding the parts of themselves they fear will be rejected. But those rejected parts don’t disappear. They become the shadow.This video breaks down the psychology of the shadow self, inspired by Fight Club and the work of Carl Jung.0:00 The Hidden Force Sabotaging Your Potential0:46 What Exactly Is the Shadow?3:59 How Defense Mechanisms Control Your Life7:17 The Dangers of Ignoring Your Shadow9:05 The Path to True IntegrationSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghIkjot Singh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ugh. I wish this video didn't existOur video on Conor McGregor received a takedown notice despite the fact that everything on it was commentary and fell within the bounds of fair use. Which means it was ripped off YouTube fraudulently because the owner of one of the clips has too much damn power.This abuse has been happening on YouTube more and more. Fair Use is getting destroyed and it sucks.I don't know how, but I'd like to figure how to fight back rather than just by complaining about it.If you have any ideas and you want to reach out to me, you can contact me via YouTube messenger or via email at charlie@charismaoncommand.comHopefully, together we can end this shit. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/015-25I used to think being attractive was all about confidence, teasing, and strong body language, but I was missing something deeper. In this video, I break down the 3 traits of grounded masculinity that most men overlook. These are the traits that make women feel emotionally safe, connected, and irresistibly drawn in.0:00 – Why Typical Attraction Advice Falls Short2:39 – Containment: The Balance Between Holding Space and Setting Limits4:18 – Empathetic Attunement: Feeling Without Getting Lost7:08 – Grounding Someone in the Now (Not the Logic)Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandEdited by:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University today: https://bit.ly/016-25Give me seven minutes and I will teach you five psychological tricks that you can use to command respect instantly.🕒Timestamps🕒0:00 – Intro0:24 – Fill Your Calendar1:18 – Move Like a Predator2:34 - The Friendly Extension3:51 – Remove filler words5:00 – Embrace SilenceSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the exercise to build enthusiasm and commitment in under 1 minute: https://goo.gl/Hg42MiKevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious StorytellingKevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive. Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories. In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories. But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes.It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours. He is just a better storyteller. The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not. Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous. You just need to know the most important pieces.While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they…

Join Charisma University today!https://bit.ly/017-25My original Jordan Peterson video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nS9W-wlJHPAJordan Peterson has delivered some of the internet’s most iconic debate moments. But his Surrounded video doesn’t quite reach that same level.Many will dissect the substance of the debate—the semantic haze, the definitions, the back-and-forth. That’s not where I want to focus.What matters most in a debate, if your goal is to actually change someone’s mind, isn’t clever semantics, gotcha moments, or even airtight logic. It’s the emotional connection you build through rapport and charisma. That human link is what opens the door to real persuasion.0:00 - Intro1:04 - Focus on amusement3:06 - Use a receptive style of listening6:41 - The Anti NBA Rule10:11 - This makes everything easierSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram:…

Watch my King Archetype video:https://youtu.be/Qe3moydLS8wTry the Warrior Breathwork:https://youtu.be/aelfMAhl2hgIf you want to build unshakable confidence and reconnect with your full potential, check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/018-25In today’s video, I dive into why so many modern men feel lost, lonely, and disconnected—and reveal how the forgotten masculine archetypes, especially the warrior, hold the key to reclaiming our purpose, power, and inner fire.0:00 - Intro0:58 - Archetypes explained1:46 - The final masculine archetype2:25 - Part I: Channel Your Aggression4:04 - Part II: Embrace Solitude5:25 - Part III: Take Risks6:50 - Part IV: Wield The Fire of DeathSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2H1opA6Donald Trump's Debates: 5 Mental Tricks You Didn't NoticeDonald Trump has proven himself to be a master persuader. His unlikely rise to prominence in the Republican primaries has riden on the fact that he knows how to work the media during interviews as well as his performances in the GOP debates against the likes of Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz.When watching the debates, many of his detractors criticize Trump's apparent lack of substance. For instance, he ducked Megyn Kelly's question about sexism with a joke about Rosie O'Donnell. He seems to repeat buzz words more than other candidates and often justifies his positions by referring to other people who support his stances, rather than defending them outright. While this may seem like weak arguments, Donald Trump's debate strategies actually align perfectly with the way humans think and process information. For that reason, Trump's arguments tend to sink in more than his…

Donald Trump Is Actually A Master PsychologistLink to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/dqNQawCould Donald Trump really win in 2016??It seems like a ridiculous question, but Donald Trump's 2016 campaign has defied all the expectations from the pundits. Initially considered a joke candidate, he now leads the Republican pack in most national polls and the polls for the most important caucuses. At the same time, a huge portion of America would be mortified if Trump were to win. He's made remarks about Muslims and Mexicans that many have found offensive and those same people are baffled about how he could be the Republican frontrunner. It's no accident though. Trump has an incredible amount of charisma and an intuitive understanding of human psychology. We'll dive into how he's used it to garner support in what many thought was an impossible campaign. We'll see Donald Trump can take the nomination for presidency in 2016.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website:…

In Stage 2? Here’s your next step: https://bit.ly/020-25In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey.01:24 - Stage 102:34 - Stage 204:21 - Stage 306:58 - Stage 408:20 - What do you do with this?Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8DvbOne of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn more about Charisma University: https://bit.ly/021-25Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.My podcast with Joe Hudson:https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3Joe Hudson's YouTube channel:‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course:https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command0:00 - Intro1:30 - The problem2:28 - How this applies to your life3:02 - A real apology 3:19 - How can we fix it?3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato"6:14 - The problem with shame5:52 - Why I made this video7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology9:26 - How to further improve relationshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn…

A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvUElliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker. He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives. And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time. Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off.We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice. Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded. We can change that. By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give. So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change.Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDLink to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown:…

Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.0:00 - Intro0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment1:48 - Wait a second...3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved4:03 - A Practical Takeaway5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpowerhttps://goo.gl/rsuAzZEveryone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through.This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-)Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeisterhttp://amzn.to/1Ocr1JeJoin the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.comSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website:…

Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhendersonSometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.0:00 - Intro1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status8:15 - The Direct Route8:41 - The Indirect Route9:20 -…

Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nASteve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate PeopleWhen Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad. But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook:…

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating StoriesJennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded. Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram:…

Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCkSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my…

Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout. This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-courseOr if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3hMost men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead.0:00 - Intro1:37 - Lie 18:12 - Lie 214:41 - Lie 321:09 - Lie 427:11 - Lie 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook:…

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my…

The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any AudiencePublic speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnOIn this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)You can watch the full speech here:https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8sFor the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to…

The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/001-26If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments6:59 - The essential mindset7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpOHow To Smile Perfectly For MenWill Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly.So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine.Check out our book:http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website:…

The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic:https://bit.ly/004-26Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.0:00 - Intro0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive1:10 - Escape the frame2:07 - Follow the shiny thing2:50 - Open the circle4:22 - Imply friendship fast4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Simba MahachiDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your…

Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.0:00 - Intro1:49 - Carl Jung2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 210:28 - Step 311:08 - Step 4Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIf just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma BreakdownGet the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2CPeople like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my…

Unlock your natural, consistent charisma: https://bit.ly/45oSK8fThere is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world.In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free.0:00 - Intro1:09 - The Core Mindset1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm 2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter 4:06 - The danger to teasing4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset5:38 - All of us have natural charisma6:03 - Today's mission7:12 - Unlock your natural, consistent charismaConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence BreakdownGet INSANE Confidence, Instantly! https://bit.ly/2N3xkCCConor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices.…

Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/lWf9gAVocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdownhttps://goo.gl/qgN8BYWatch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes. It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl. After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.Subscribe to Charisma On Command. https://goo.gl/qgN8BYConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices