Vanessa Van Edwards

Knowing how to interrupt a conversation is a very important skill a person should learn. Have you ever been talking to someone, and they keep talking and talking and talking and talking and you can’t get them to stop talking? You don’t want to be rude by directly interrupting them, but you really need (and want) to end the conversation.Luckily there are some easy ways to get out of those situations. Watch this video for some easy nonverbal tricks you can use to get people to stop talking.Want more details on how to get people to stop talking?https://www.scienceofpeople.com/stop-talking/00:00 Intro00:40 Level 1- The Fish01:16 Level 2- The Bookmark01:41 Level 3- the Pupil02:15 Level 4- The Touch02:54 Level 5- The Teacher03:25 Get Someone to Stop Interrupting You******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn…

Moved to a new city? As an adult, introvert, ambivert, or anyone in between, it can be hard to make new friends and meet new people.In this video, I talk about how to meet new people and where to meet new people. The possibilities of meeting a really great friend, best friend, or even soulmate are huge! I've met awesome people in all the places that I've lived, and I want to share the tips I've used over the years so that you can meet some awesome people too!In this video: 0:00 Intro1:18 How to meet people standing in line2:01 How to meet people at events2:58 How to meet people at parties3:40 How to meet people at events that have a meal involved4:46 How to meet people anywhere5:14 Where to meet people5:24 Where to meet people with similar interests as you7:06 Where to meet people with similar book interests as you8:29 Where to meet people in your city9:26 Where to meet people in a learning setting10:29 Where to meet people who enjoy trivia11:15 Where to meet people who love to dance12:23 Where to meet…

Are people talking behind your back? I have this little problem: I tend to think that people are talking about me behind my back. It’s totally paranoid and ridiculous, but I wanted to know if I was alone. We all had the horrible feeling of being hurt when you discover that someone was talking about you behind your back.So, I asked our Twitter followers if they agreed with this statement: “I often think people are talking about me behind my back.” There is science to back up this paranoia. For more on the science, check out our article HERE: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/gossiping/Do you have the same paranoia as me? Leave your comments in the section below, I'd love to hear from you.******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful…

Join me as I record the audiobook for Cues! I was so excited to record at Arlyn studios and to be able to share a sneak peek of the book!This book is 17 years in the making and I'm excited to share all my hard work with you all.Cues is available for preorder! Here is the link to grab your copy: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/In this video:0:00 Intro0:29 Tour of Arlyn Studios2:06 Thoughts before I start recording2:36 Studio tour4:37 My vocal warm-ups5:31 Book intro8:28 Small break8:40 Maria Konnikova and her 1 year in the poker world13:18 Apple break13:45 The end of Cues14:11 Final thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help…

Interested in the science of emotions? How do emotions work? I’ve always been fascinated by how our emotions work. To me, it intuitively seemed like they’re all in our heads. I thought that all we needed to do to understand our emotional states and to get out of them was logic. My perspective changed when I read an amazing study by Aalto University that revealed that we experience our feelings in different and specific parts of our body.I hope this video is helpful to you! Be sure to give it a thumbs up if you like it =)For more on the Science of Emotions, check out our article: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/emotions-list/******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the…

Save the date: March 10th at 10 AM CST I will be holding a LIVE MASTER CLASS teaching all about Cues and revealing the last 4 CUES not mentioned in the book!Your book is your TICKET to the master class so be sure to buy your copy by March 4th at midnight and SUBMIT your receipt. Once you submit your receipt, you will receive your bonuses and the access link to the master class!Thank you for your unending support and I'll see you in the master class!******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE…

It doesn't have to be a daunting job to host a game night. One of the best ways to quickly and effortlessly level-up friendships is to create a shared experience. I learned the hard way that hosting a game night is a great bonding experience that will create a deeper connection than any normal dinner or coffee. I go to or host game nights constantly and I have to say they are one of the highlights of my weekends. If you choose to host an evening of fun, I have 6 tips that will help you have the perfect game night experience and have a friendly party that will please all your guests.Want more details on how to host a game night?https://www.scienceofpeople.com/host-game-night/Please leave your comments below... I would love to hear your favorite games to play and your favorite game night tips.******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal…

Let's be real. The pandemic had us cooped up at home for far too long. Going places, events, and meeting up with people were almost nonexistent. Now that we're slowly but surely opening back up, we're showing up. And when you show up, I want you to be your most confident self.In this video, you will learn how to walk into any room with ease and confidence. People make their first impressions within the first couple of seconds. Let's make those seconds count, and make your entrance grand!In this video: 0:00 Intro0:31 Step 1: Walk with purpose2:05 Step 2: Sweeping Gaze4:03 Step 3: Signal6:28 Step 4: Swift Personal Greetings9:45 Step 5: Open with a sparking conversation12:06 My grand exit******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time…

Are you afraid of being alone? Do you know someone who constantly wants to get together? We asked our Twitter followers if they agreed with this statement: “I am afraid of being alone.” Whether you struggle with this problem or want to help a friend, I have 3 easy steps that will help.This is just the start! If you want to learn more about human behavior hacks, check out my book Captivate: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/00:00 Intro01:48 How to Love Being By Yourself01:57 Use the Carrot Method02:25 Take Baby Steps02:48 Reflection is Powerful03:33 Challenge******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/)…

Mental toughness is something we all want to achieve. Whether we experience a low confidence day, we have a nerve-racking event coming up, or you simply feel yourself getting pulled down by your own negative thoughts, I sat down with Dr. Nate Zinsser and talked about everything mental toughness and he had some groundbreaking advice.Check out Dr. Nate Zinsser's book "The Confident Mind" here: https://www.amazon.com/Confident-Mind-Battle-Tested-Unshakable-Performance/dp/0063014831 And check out his website here: https://www.natezinsser.com/In this video: 0:00 Intro1:25 Who is Dr. Nate Zinsser?2:16 What does it mean to have a confident mind?3:15 A myth to mental toughness5:30 What is a sewer and a success cycle?10:27 What to do in a sewer cycle16:45 What does it mean to fall in love with your butterflies?21:42 Action steps to mental toughness22:24 Dr. Zinsser's final piece of advice******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name…

Sick of the never-ending micromanagement at work? 🕒💼 Discover essential strategies for coping with them. Find out the reasons behind why micromanagers do what they do and how their fears shape their actions. I want to teach you the practical ways to communicate effectively with your manager and establish a management approach that matches your work style. Building trust and sparking meaningful conversations can help you break free from the micromanagement trap. Take these steps to create a more positive work environment and nurture a productive and self-reliant mindset.Read more here: www.scienceofpeople.com/micromanager/ In this video: 0:04 - Micromanager Traits0:43 - Why Micromanagers Micromanage1:13 - Identifying Your Management Preferences1:15 - Steps to Communicate with Your Manager1:45 - Figuring Out Your Work Style2:03 - Approaching a Micromanager2:26 - Setting Clear Expectations2:55 - Effective Communication about Time Management3:01 - Building Trust with Your Manager3:43 - Understanding…

Learn how to have an awesome party using our simple party tips. When it comes to going to parties and meeting new people, sometimes it’s the little things that can be the most awkward and nerve-wracking. I met with Tra’Renee Chambers to talk about two simple greetings that often cause people to fumble. If you want to start your interactions off on a positive note, watch this video.Want more details on how to throw an awesome party?https://www.scienceofpeople.com/throw-a-party/Thank you for watching!! Comment in this section below and tell me your favorite party tricks.00:00 Intro00:30 Names- Repeat them to Remember them01:22 Names- Create a Visual Memory02:30 Names- Rhymes with…04:20 Handshake Science******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop…

I'm always asked how to pitch ideas, businesses, and people better, and one common thing that often gets neglected is the pitch deck. The pitch deck can make or break a pitch even if what you're saying is great!In this video, I review top companies like AirBnb, YouTube, and Spotify to point out the do's and don'ts of pitch decks. By the end of this video, you'll learn how to confidently pitch your idea, business, or yourself to just about anyone!Links!:AirBnb's Pitch deck: https://www.slideshare.net/ryangum/airbnb-pitch-deck-from-2008Buffer: https://www.slideshare.net/TechInAsiaID/buffer-pitch-deck-66719797Shopify: https://www.slideshare.net/shopifyInvestors/shopify-investor-deck-january-2016Dropbox: https://www.slideshare.net/DanielChadorhany/dropbox-15k-of-vc-investment-turned-into-17b-dropboxs-initial-pitch-deckYouTube: https://www.slideshare.net/startuphome/youtube-pitch-deck-87211646Tinder:…

Radical confidence doesn't always come from a "rags to riches" story. There are plenty of people that gain their confidence from simply wanting more.In this interview, Lisa from @LisaBilyeu and I talk about radical confidence, and how to cultivate it, while Lisa shares a few stories that have built her into the woman she is today. She also tells us amazing stories behind the building of Quest Nutrition and how she grew the business by 57,000%Check out Lisa's new book here: https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Confidence-No-BS-Lessons-Becoming/dp/B09M62QZLN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=D51C6A4VYYRW&keywords=lisa+bilyeu&qid=1649381050&sprefix=lisa+bilyeu%2Caps%2C97&sr=8-1In this video: 0:00 Intro2:58 What is radical confidence?4:05 Can we be contagious for ourselves?5:15 Our inner mean girl10:20 Purgatory of the Mundane13:18 Being grateful but still wanting more14:40 Lisa's Candy story21:51 Lisa's Mistake story28:00 Ask why something isn't possible29:49 Lisa's last takeaways Learn more about being a confident woman in the full…

If you find yourself asking "what do I do with my hands?" in any social situation, this is the video for you!In this video, you'll learn what to do with your hands in every social situation whether you're sitting, standing, talking, or even dancing!In this video:0:00 Intro0:36 Hands should be CALM1:07 Hands should be CONFIDENT2:54 Use explanatory gestures3:53 What to do with my hands while speaking?4:20 What to do with my hands while sitting?5:08 What to do with my hands while standing?6:21 What to do with my hands while dancing?6:47 Don't crack your knuckles7:00 Don't put your hands in your pockets7:26 Don't touch your face8:07 Final thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret…

Do you ever ask for advice? If not, you should. Asking for advice is one of my favorite, most-overlooked people hacks because it helps you learn new things and bond with people. The need to take advice comes up regularly in everyday life. In this video, I have 4 simple steps you can implement that will bring you closer to people.Did you like this video?? This is just the start! If you want to learn more human behavior hacks check out my book Captivate and claim your copy:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/00:00 Intro00:55 The Magic of Advice01:34 Step 1- Be Specific to Them02:10 Step 2- Ask Something Specific02:50 Step 3- Be Specifically Grateful03:07 Step 4- Take the Advice******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections,…

Are you an everyday hero? Real life heroes live to tell great stories. They have powerful narratives that help themselves and others thrive. Learn from the amazing Don Miller @DonaldMillerWebsite on how to be the hero of your own life. He is the author of the incredible book "Hero on a Mission" Check Don Miller's new book "Hero on a Mission": https://www.amazon.com/Hero-Mission-Path-Meaningful-Life/dp/1400226945/ref=sr_1_1?crid=PJU9T67KL0YY&keywords=hero+on+a+mission&qid=1649456491&sprefix=hero+on+a+mission%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1In this video:0:00 Intro2:33 Don Miller's life's movie title4:06 4 characters in each story7:20 Hero & Guide Vs. Villain & Victim8:19 What is a narrative void?11:38 Meaning in motion14:26 Everyone is allowed to have interesting lives16:52 Writing your own eulogy20:16 Last thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the…

How many times are you faced with the dreaded question, "how are you?" and how many times do you answer "good!" when maybe you'd rather answer any other way?My answers to those questions? Far too many times. I've been thinking about funny ways to answer this question, break the social script, and maybe even get a little giggle out of someone.In this video:0:00 Intro0:45 Funny response #1: Better inside1:15 Funny response #2: Figuring it out1:45 Funny response #3: Bring the energyyyyyyy2:52 Funny response #4: The age formula3:37 Bottom line******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of…

In this video, I will be talking about my writing process and how I wrote my bestselling book, Captivate. I have received many questions from my lovely blog readers wanting to write their own books, memoirs, and guides. My latest book Captivate was so fun for me to write that I am thrilled to share the secrets that helped me, and I hope they help you so that you can captivate your readers with the best kind of writing process.Do you have any writing tips or hacks that help you? Share them in the comments below.This is just the beginning! Do you want to learn 14 hacks to succeeding with people? Check out my book Captivate:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/00:00 Intro00:33 Writing Rhythms01:20 Don't Start Writing Cold02:00 Inspiration Books02:50 Instrumental Music03:10 Never Finish on the Last Word of a Sentence******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to…

Some goals are meant to be planned out as long-term goals and I sat down with Dorie Clark who shared her knowledge about strategic thinking.Strategic thinking can help us win in life. Whether it be at the workplace, personal goals, or even relationship goals, Dorie gives amazing insight on how to develop strategic thinking.Be sure to check out Dorie's amazing book The Long Game: www.dorieclark.com/thelonggameIn this video:0:00 Intro3:30 The Definition of Strategic Thinking6:30 Busyness vs. Strategic Thinking9:55 Defaulting to "YES"14:20 Decide to be bad at something19:15 Optimizing for interesting22:00 Networking25:30 The Strategic Thinking List28:00 What is your next step?28:20 Dorie's last thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a…

Can charisma be learned? Do you think highly charismatic people are born or made? Some people are gifted with natural charisma. A person must have some charisma for being a great leader. In our weekly Twitter poll, we asked our followers if the following statement is true or false, "I believe charisma can be learned.' Can you guess which answer got 90%? Watch this video to find out the answer.But wait--- This is just the start! In my book Captivate, I dive into the science of charisma and outline it in 14 hacks that will help you succeed with people. Learn the new–science based way for winning friends and influencing people by ordering your copy here:https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0399564489/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=captivatesoppage-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0399564489&linkId=28d6977d6d7786f3ac18f2d99d64cbde00:00 Intro01:13 Congruency01:40 Confession******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School:…

I had the honor to speak at the San Diego Women's Week event to talk about charisma, it's flavors, and how anyone can be more charismatic in their own way. Learn just how charisma can be learned!Book Vanessa for your next event at: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/speaking/ or email at speakingscienceofpeople.comIn this video:0:00 TED Talk Experiment0:26 Why some TED talkers have more views than others2:00 The importance of hand gestures4:13 The science behind hand gestures******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person…

Do you believe that you're a truth wizard? Research tells us that we are lied to as much as 200 times per day. That is crazy! Lying is a bad thing to do, most of the time. We like to think we are good at detecting lies, but an average person can judge lies with 54% accuracy, which is barely better than a coin toss. However, there are a small group of people that can detect lies with 80% accuracy.Are you a naturally born truth wizard? Check out our article to find out more:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/are-you-a-truth-wizard/******Want to be an expert lie spotter? Take our online lie detection training. This course will teach you how to spot lies and uncover hidden emotions in others. Improve your lie detection abilities Decode hidden emotions Increase the honesty of your interactions Learn the secrets of body languageGet the free preview of the course: Lie Detection: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/lie-detection/ ******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of…

As we get older, our definition of "cool" changes. What we felt was important back then, can be different now that we've experienced life and learned our lessons.Codie Sanchez and I talked all about what it means to be a cool kid, how cool kids interact in social interactions, and how being cool can serve you in business transactions. This was a fun conversation to be a part of!Check out all of Codie's stuff!Codie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/CodieSanchezCT @CodieSanchezCT Codie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/codiesanchez/Codie's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realcodiesanchezIn this video: 0:00 Intro1:44 What is a cool kid?5:10 Codie's interest in buying boring businesses7:00 How does confidence tie into being "cool"?9:20 Boring can be cool10:54 Cool people are generous11:30 How to introduce yourself in a cool way14:27 How to grow your friend group18:16 Paypal mafia21:22 How to attract other adult cool kids22:40 Upcoming for CodieCodie's car renting video:…

Stop your resting bothered face and start being more approachable and likable. In this video, I will teach you how to combat resting bothered face, so you can appear more friendly and charming.In this video:0:00 Intro0:35 The science of RBF1:40 Why do I have a RBF?2:48 Tips to stop your RBF3:34 Final thoughts******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: www.scienceofpeople.com/enrollPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & Sales******Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! Learn more…

Getting compliments isn't always as pleasant as it might seem. When someone gives me a compliment, I kind of cringe and hope the awkward moment is over, but I've found some cool and different ways to respond to compliments, even if you hate being complimented!Learn more about responding to compliments in the full article:👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/funny-responses/In this video:0:00 Intro0:49 Respond to compliments by being grateful1:07 Respond to compliments by being cheeky2:23 Respond to compliments by asking for more3:37: Give a compliment!4:07 Here's my compliment******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication…

Do you know that awkward moment that happens when you first see someone and you are not sure if they are going to give you a handshake or a hug? It always happens in horrible slow motion for me -- and then you end up in an awkward side hug.When writing my book Captivate, I sought out to discover to how to deal with social issues that plague our everyday lives. Through research, I have some solutions that will help you navigate and succeed at greetings. If you want more tips on how to navigate awkward social situations and make a great impression, check out my book Captivate:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/00:00 Intro00:50 Handshake or Hug?01:20 Kissy Face01:55 Show What you Want******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful…

Our inner critic can be harsh, but it's there for a reason. Switching up the inner critic to work in your favor can help put you into a positive mindset.In this video, Kindra and I talk about how your inner narrative can actually serve you and the decision to see your story from a different perspective is best to avoid an iceberg moment through the steps mentioned in Kindra's book.Check out Kindra's book: https://www.chooseyourstorychangeyourlife.com/In this video: 0:00 Intro3:14 Your inner critic3:34 Changing the narrative9:06 Your old story vs your new story10:58 Money stories13:40 "Should" stories14:55 Verbal and emotional iceberg moments20:49 Kindra's final thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author…

Judging people is very common. Is your first judgment of someone accurate? As I was doing some research for my book Captivate, I discovered why people make snap decisions about the strangers they meet. While doing the research, I also turned to my Twitter followers to see how accurately they perceive someone else... What did they say? Watch this video to find out.Do you want to play along with us on our next Twitter poll? Be sure to follow me @Vvanedwards.This is just the start! Be sure to check out my book Captivate and learn more about how to read faces and what your pictures say about you:https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0399564489/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=posts09-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0399564489&linkId=72e1181296928bcd681187aa6411d564******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you…

Have you ever had to read from a script and you know you sound a little...robotic?I put together 11 tips on enhancing your script reading and sounding like your most charismatic self. You'll learn how to leverage your vocal power and I share some fascinating science behind reading from script vs. reading off-script.In this video:0:00 Intro0:11 Tip #1: Dictate your script first0:31 Tip #2: Use shorter words & sentences1:07 Tip #3: Smile when reading2:38 Tip #4: Use the right microphone3:26 Tip #5: Use hand gestures4:34 Tip #6: Power pause6:37 Tip #7: Channel someone else8:01 Tip #8: Try it 4 ways9:50 Tip #9: Use actual emotion11:38 Tip #10: Know when to skip a script12:37 Tip #11: The half/half method13:41 Final thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People…

Have you ever struggled with holding yourself accountable? Have you ever set a goal and fallen short of achieving it?In this video, Alex Sheen @thensheensaid and I talk about how to hold yourself accountable. Alex shares advice and tips about what it's like to successfully set a goal and the journey towards reaching it. No matter how big or small, with the mentality of "Because I said I would".Check out Alex Sheen: https://becauseisaidiwould.org/alexsheen/https://becauseisaidiwould.org/In this video: 0:00 Intro2:26 Why are making and keeping promises important?4:12 How to hold yourself accountable9:21 Set up a pre-commitment11:42 Self-control - changing "have to" into "get to"14:30 The most common promises15:48 Because I Said I Would background******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with…

You've probably seen a few signs that they are attracted to you...but how can you know for sure? In this video, I talk about 3 science based tips that help you determine whether those signs are signs of attraction! I think that if you're able to read these nonverbal cues, you can avoid any awkwardness that comes with trying to find out if someone is interested and help define the relationship once and for all. In this video:0:00 - Intro0:35 - Proximity1:22 - Touch2:25 - Eye Contact2:56 - Outro******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & SalesJoin the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR******Do you…

Is your schedule over-crowded? Do you ever wish you had more time for brainstorm or creative tasks? I sat down with Jenny Blake and we talked about how we can get time back with some time management strategies. We need to protect our calendars and our time...and our sanity!Check out Jenny's new book Free time: https://itsfreetime.com/bookIn this video:0:00 Intro4:00 What is Golden Hour?8:48 What is DNS? (Do not schedule)17:38 Don't push the river22:16 Complimentary tasks24:21 Jenny's final step******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be…

We conducted an experiment to measure the emotional activity of people while they watched videos. As we were launching our book "Captivate" we wanted to film a book promo. We ended up with two versions of the promo. I could not pick between the two of them, so I reached out to Dialsmith for some help. Through Dialsmith, we ran an experiment on two different book promo videos: Short White & Long Grey. Here's what we found.Here is our article on :The Psychology of How People React to Videos":https://www.scienceofpeople.com/the-psychology-of-how-people-react-to-videos/Here is the final version of our book promo:https://youtu.be/4UviUQF9r4g******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve…

Are you an introvert? Do you know an introvert and want to have better, deeper conversations? I got you covered. Be sure to respect an introvert by asking the right questions.Read all 30 Great Conversation Starters for Introverts here:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/introvert-conversation-starters/In this video: 0:00 Are you an introvert or do you know an introvert?0:14 Never ask: What's Your Story?0:46 Use Context Questions0:55 Leverage Social Energy1:14 Don't Ask: Have Any Fun Plans this Weekend?1:34 Ask about what's interesting1:47 Ask for Advice2:17 Know your answers to these questions******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication…

Are you an introvert? Do you know an introvert and want to have better, deeper conversations? I got you covered. Be sure to respect an introvert by asking the right questions.Read all 30 Great Conversation Starters for Introverts here:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/introvert-conversation-starters/In this video: 0:00 Are you an introvert or do you know an introvert?0:14 Never ask: What's Your Story?0:46 Use Context Questions0:55 Leverage Social Energy1:14 Don't Ask: Have Any Fun Plans this Weekend?1:34 Ask about what's interesting1:47 Ask for Advice2:17 Know your answers to these questions******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication…

Picture this: you're at a job interview and you have to sell yourself to this hiring manager. You HAVE to tell them what you're good at and your accomplishments...otherwise, they won't know and you might not stand out among the other candidates. Talking about yourself without bragging is definitely an art, and I was able to gather some tips for your next opportunity to toot your horn in a creative way.In this video:0:00 Intro0:18 Traits you are most proud of0:48 Share a story about your best traits1:39 Practice your storytelling2:57 Say what others have said about you4:32 Brag about yourselfRead the full article at Science of People: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/talk-without-bragging/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and…

Everyone has someone you don't quite click with, but can't seem to get away from. It could be a pesky colleague or a friend of a friend. If you have this person you have to know how to make decent conversation with them...and who knows? Maybe after some better conversation, you'll like them more!Get our 30 Conversation Starters for People You Don't Like: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-dislike/ This amazing video was edited by our wonderful editor Ricardo Delgado of ShortX Lab. Check out his work and get his help with your videos at: @richaaard00In this video: 0:00 People you don't like0:23 #1: Ask for advice0:57 #2: Use mutual connections or projects1:18: #3 Amazing conversation starters for people you don't like2:00 #4 How to crack open a difficult person2:20: #5 Ask for future plans2:41: Put boundaries on fake friends******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in…

Hooray, you have a date coming up! I want to see you succeed and have the best date ever. You need to know how to blow them away with sparkling and captivating conversations, but what do you ask and how you build a bond quickly? In this video, I will gift you the 5 best first date questions that will help stimulate conversation. Let me know in the comment section what is the best conversation starter/ question you've heard or use while on a date.Want more details on the best first date questions?https://www.scienceofpeople.com/first-date-questions/In this video:0:00 Intro0:40 Are you working on any personal passion projects?1:02 What's the best present you ever gave someone?1:25 What does a typical day look like for you?1:52 What sort of vacations do you like to take?2:30 Anything surprising happen today?3:00 Final thoughts******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed…

Do you get social fatigue? When you're out and about and you suddenly are ready to go home, you're done talking, you're over hanging out, and you just want to jump into some pajamas to watch some Netflix?You are not alone. Social fatigue is actually quite common and can happen to introverts and extroverts too. In this video, you'll learn how to manage social fatigue, charge your social battery, and interact on a whole new level. On your terms!In this video:0:00 Intro0:34 Signs you have social fatigue1:16 Realize your triggers2:42 Block and barrier3:51 Make small social changes5:00 Bring a wingman or wing woman5:31 Remember your why6:17 Final thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the…

When I give a presentation most people only see what happens on stage. But there is so much happening behind the scenes. From tech check, to slide prep, to battling nerves I wanted to show you a real glimpse into what goes into @GlobalLeadershipNetworkSummit Summit 2022.Major thanks to the incredible team at Global Leadership Summit, Matt Sommerfield for capturing all this footage, Scott Edwards for being an amazing partner, Caroyln Remillard for keeping me organized, and Faith Schiller for supporting me on the ground.I believe anyone can be an incredible speaker, whether you experience nervousness or stage fright. Want to learn how you can do it too? Sign up for Powerful Presentations, where I share everything I've learned about delivering amazing presentations on video, on stage, and on the phone.Sign up now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/presentation-skills-course/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name…

Is online dating replacing the traditional way of meeting a person? As we all know that online dating is becoming the norm in today's time. If you are reading this and are having trouble navigating the online dating world, have no fear-- We have 5 tips that will help you optimize your profile and will help you increase your chances of finding love.We also have our Ultimate Guide to Dating here:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/online-dating-profile/******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based…

Do you find yourself caught up in something negative someone said about you or to you? Do you care deeply about your reputation and what others think about you to the point that they control your every move and thought?I sat down with the lovely Jodie Cook and we talked about how we can stop caring about what people think about us. You will learn how to focus on your journey, shift your mindset, and ultimately stop caring about what other people think about you!Read more here! https://www.scienceofpeople.com/stop-caring-what-people-think/Check out Jodie Cook's new book: tenyearcareer.comIn this video:0:00 Intro2:09 How to stop caring about what other people think3:57 Clicking with everyone6:27 Be judgment-free9:15 What can you control?11:33 Perspective16:55 See what's really happening18:22 Protect your energy21:32 Remember your why24:30 Final thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and…

In this video, I will share with you some tips on what not to do on a first date? Every successful first date requires at least some planning and preparation. The first date can be the foundation of an entire relationship. First dates are filled with excitement, nervous emotions, and yes, even a little bit of awkwardness. But have no fear, I will help you prepare and plan for the perfect first date.To see all 7 tips, go to our website:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/first-date/See our 13 best date questions here:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/first-date-questions/00:00 Intro00:50 My mom says...01:22 Politics02:06 Don't ask for their "numbers"02:55 Talking about your ex03:20 The Billboard Check******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful…

Do you want to connect with your boyfriend and get to know him? Great love questions are the key. Here are my 10 favorite questions to ask your boyfriend. You can do this over text, video (great for long-distance relationships) and of course, on your next date. Be sure you think about your answers to these questions as well!This amazing video was edited by our wonderful editor Ricardo Delgado of ShortX Lab. Check out his work and get his help with your videos at: @richaaard00In this video:0:12 Love Question #10:20 Love Question #20:30 Love Question #30:38 Love Question #40:46 Love Question #50:59 Love Question #61:08 Love Question #71:12 Love Question #81:21 Love Question #91:30 Love Question #10Get all 325 of our favorite love questions to ask your boyfriend right here:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering…

If you have struggled with effective networking in the past, you definitely need to watch this video to know how to improve your own networking habits. We all have a desire to connect and help others grow, and networking is the key to success. I have 5 tips that will help you become a master networker with all your friends and colleagues.You can find more networking tips here:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/networking/00:00 Intro01:28 Develop an Action Plan02:54 Goal-Oriented Questions03:48 Offer Help05:25 Follow Up******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a…

So you're having a bad day. I am so sorry! How do you answer the constant barrage of casual, "how are you?" without being feeling dishonest? I have some tips for you and scripts you can use! By the way...if you are having a good day, check out my funny responses to "How are you?" to brighten up any #conversation.https://www.scienceofpeople.com/funny-responses/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞…

Discover how to find your dream job with easy-to-follow steps. A lot of people have trouble figuring out what their dream job is. I know that landing that dream job you've always wanted can be tough to navigate. But have no fear; I will help you uncover the secrets to finding and going after that dream job in 5 easy steps you can implement today.If you need help hacking your resume, check out our latest article on "How to Hack Your Resume… and Win the Job of Your Dreamhttps://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-get-a-job/If you need help finding your calling, Check out our YouTube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XL7vOm2uKSU00:00 Intro00:28 Is it "really" a dream?01:15 Company culture02:41 Mutual Contacts and Connections04:20 Match Your Skills to Their Needs05:25 Non-verbal First Impression (handshakes) ******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now:…

Do you work with someone or know someone who has an odd odor? Want to help? This is an awkward situation but it can be handled with kindness! In this video I give you my exact script to tell someone they smell bad. You got this!https://www.scienceofpeople.com/tell-someone-they-smell/In this video: 0:00 I'm so sorry0:21 Be non-awkward0:31 Step #1: Ask Permission0:46 Script for you to use1:06 Make sure it's private1:30 Be direct & compassionate1:46 Give a why1:57 How to end this conversation well2:54 I smell too******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do…

Do you need to write an incredible toast? Don't make common toast mistakes. If you have been asked to give a toast, we created a list of do's and don'ts just for you. In this video, we will talk about giving toasts and how to make yours memorable.And if you need further tips, check out our template article here:https://www.scienceofpeople.com/toasts/Let's all raise our glass and cheers to you on rocking your next big toast!00:00 Intro01:00 The Hook01:35 Background 02:15 1-2-3 Punch 02:35 When You Should Run it by the Guest of Honor03:00 Go for the Surprise Factor 03:45 The Clink04:30 Toast Felonies******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re…